Dear Annie: My wife left me a little over a year ago. She handled all the finances and was a stay-at-home mom while I worked to earn money. After six months of counseling and her refusing to budge, it was evident the marriage was. She says it was spent on groceries, gas, gifts and other living expenses, while stteal family checking account shows those expenses were drawn from it. Is this plausible? Or does some malfeasance seem probable? Dear Baffled: Good riddance.